This is my family’s first holiday season without my grandfather, and we’re all feeling his absence. People have different ways of dealing with the loss of someone close, and sometimes we may ask ourselves, ‘How long will I feel this way?’ or ‘Is this normal?’ Grief is a natural response to death, as we work through the myriad of feelings that come up as the grieving process takes its course. Sometimes, however, one can get stuck on that course, and it becomes difficult to move on.
Tomorrow, December 3rd, Dr. Allan Zuckoff, Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Pittsburgh, will be at the Carnegie Library of Pittsburgh – Main to speak about grief, how it works, when it doesn’t, and to clarify commonly held misconceptions about it. The lecture will be held in the International Poetry Room on the 2nd Floor at 6pm, and there will be free screenings for Complicated Grief and Depression. It is part of the Mental Health & Wellness Lecture Series, a monthly event sponsored by the University of Pittsburgh Clinical and Translational Science Institute.
If you or someone you know wants to learn more about the grieving process, please come and take advantage of this free program. You may also be interested in this list of fiction, memoirs and self help books, as well.
- Comfort: A Journey Through Grief, by Ann Hood
- Good Grief: A Novel, by Lolly Winston
- Grief, by Andrew Holleran
- I Wasn’t Ready to Say Goodbye: Surviving, Coping, and Healing After the Sudden Death of a Loved One, by Brook Noel and Pamela D. Blair
- On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss, by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler
- When Bad Things Happen to Good People, by Harold Kushner
- The Year of Magical Thinking, by Joan Didion
-Kaarin






6 Comments
December 2, 2008 at 9:32 am
I think it’s very…fitting that grief should be discussed during the holiday season espeically since, as was pointed out, it is during this time that we truley feel the void that is left with the loss of a loved one. Hopefully many people will read this post today and attend the lecture tomorrow so it may help their holidays become a bit brighter.
December 2, 2008 at 12:20 pm
Thank you for this post. It is my family’s first holiday season without my grandfather as well and a loss at this time of year can be quite hard. I’m sure this lecture and the recommended books will be helpful to many.
December 3, 2008 at 11:00 am
Boy, I sense a theme here! Anyway, so sad not to be able to make that lecture tonight (dinner plans) as I would have really enjoyed that. Grief is such a strange animal and I think it takes so many forms, shapes and even appears invisible at times. Any and all help is good! Great title recommendations too, Kaarin!
December 8, 2008 at 6:27 pm
Hi-
I just found this post and wanted to tell you how much I appreciate it. This holiday season, I’m mourning the loss of my father. It’s good to know I’m not the only one facing this. Thanks also for the resources.
December 8, 2008 at 9:21 pm
Hi Denise – we’re glad you found the resources useful (that’s why we’re here, after all) and we’re very sorry for your loss. Here’s hoping you and your family have the best holiday season possible.
Best,
Leigh Anne
December 8, 2008 at 9:23 pm
Oh, and while I’m here, I should say thank you to all the other folks who commented, for sharing, and to Kaarin, for writing something that’s making an impact. It just goes to show that, even on the web, you’re never alone…
LAV